Desh, Kaal and Patra (Place, Time and Individual) are the very basic principles of Astrology; and, have a great say in determining the actual course of action in one’s life. Therefore, besides the planetary disposition of your horoscope; the timing of marriage also depends upon self interest and inclination to get married. No planet or its influence is going to hold your hand and get you married; but the best can be expected, is the suitable opportunities and planetary support to get married within specific time frame. During earlier times, when the social norms and culture used to have a significant influence and/or compulsion (to get married as early as possible) in the life of a common man, it was comparatively easier to identify and predict the marriage timing very precisely. However, nowadays things have changed considerably;
Are you looking for suitable life partner? If yes, this article may provide some good hints about what to look in to the horoscope of your life partner. Melapak or Guna Milaap is the most commonly used concept; wherein the compatibility of a marital match is analyzed on the basis of Moon’s disposition in respective horoscopes. It does serve some purpose; however, I personally prefer to give more value to the planetary influences on the individual horoscope.
Stability, dependability and trust are the prime elements of any relationship; and, this is what one should and would be looking in his/her marital relationships. The other factors like health, job, status, personality and family back ground etc. are also important; but become quite useless if one cannot experience stability and trust in marriage.
Apropos to my previous article about marriage and relationships; I am trying to share and explain my understandings and observations regarding timing of marriage. In Brihat Parashara Hora Shashtra (Chapter 20), some planetary combinations (Yogas) are mentioned about the marital age. However, exact identification of the marriage giving Dasa is not mentioned in BPHS. In tenth chapter of Phaladeepika though, Sage Mantreshawara has given some hints regarding the marriage time. In this article, I will try to explore and explain these Yogas for the benefit of the reader.
First, I will be taking a few verses mentioned in Chapter 20 of Brihat Parashara Hora Shashtra. The Venus is considered as general significator for wife and marriage in female horoscopes; while for female Horoscope, this role is assigned to Jupiter. Therefore, wherever the Sage mentioned the role of Venus as significator for wife and marriage – it is to be taken as Jupiter for female horoscope.
Nothing can cause more trouble in the life of a human being other than disturbed relationships and/or marriage. Emotional support is one of the most required need of our life; and all happiness and peace in life can only be enjoyed only if one is bestowed with favorable relationships in life.
Marriage is on top of all relationships, one goes through during the life time. Vedic astrology horoscope of a person contains all information regarding relationships and marriage. Only thing required is having the ability to understand and decode the horoscope. Vedic astrology readings for relationships and marriage are basically concerned with first, second and seventh houses of the horoscope. Influence of negative and cruel planets over these houses and/or operation of a malefic planets period can cause specific and grievous problems in one’s relationships and marriage.
-When will I get married?-
Quite often people approach astrologers for getting answer of the question mentioned above. My experience of vedic astrology readings says that this question is not very relevant and useful. The appropriate query should be, “when should I get married”, in place of , “when will I get married”.
The period chosen for entering into marriage should be clean and safe for other important aspects of life such as profession, finance, health and social relations. If at the time of marriage, there appears to be some problem in any of these aspects, one should not get married till the negative influences of planets are over. Vedic astrology readings of your horoscope can indicate this aspect very well and you can choose the best time of getting married.
Vedic astrology horoscope can easily tell when will you get married and how will be your marred life? The seventh house of vedic astrology horoscope is related with marriage, relationships, life-partner and post marital relations.
Strong and well placed seventh lord in vedic astrology horoscope ensures timely marriage and marital happiness. At the same time, seventh Bhava of birth chart should also be free from negative influence of malefic planets.
Weak and/or affliction on the part of seventh house or its lord may cause delay, denial and troubles in marriage and relationships. For appropriate vedic astrology readings, the operation of main and sub period of planets is also to be considered. Sometimes, even after having strong seventh Bhava in vedic astrology horoscope, the operation of malefic planets main or sub-period may cause temporary delays and problems in marriage and relationships.
Vedic astrology readings of a birth chart can give reasonable hint in this regard. The physique and nature of life partner can be accessed by the lord of the seventh house and its placement in specific house and sign. The physique of your life partner resembles the nature of the seventh lord and the sign occupied by it in the birth chart.